Karma is real.

Yep.  

I'm awkward. Socially. ..and probably emotionally too. And DEFINITELY physically.  In fact, my family calls me Bambi when we play sports.  Isn't that so mean? haha, but that's a story for another day!  

Ok so I had grandest epiphany last night.

Here's the story.

Just FYI:  We're about to become a lot better friends. ;)

K so probably my number one hobby for the first 21 years of my life was making people feel awkward.  Really.  Just ask any of my friends and they'll tell you I did a pretty decent job.  I just loved being awkward (on purpose) and watching people squirm in the awkwardness of our conversations or my actions or whatever it may have been.

Ok, I know you're nearly having a hernia wanting some examples so here you go:  Exhibit A: I used to give what I affectionately call the "nuzzle hug"... in which I randomly, without anticipation or invitation on his part, just nuzzle into a man I'm hugging like a happy little kitten.  Like I'm HIS happy little kitten. Like its my first nuzzle.  Its not weird.  Ok, maybe it is.  And maybe I actually did it last night (but that was the first time since before my mission, haha). I don't even like cats.  Like, at all.  K, moving on to Exhibit B:  I used to (ok maybe sometimes I still do, but only when the timing is too perfect not to) add "but you want to" when somebody says "I don't know him/her very well" or "I don't get him/her".  Exhibit C:  I used to ... Who am I kidding? I STILL ask people TONS of questions when getting to know them that maybe make them feel awkward.  Like, "Did you have any experiences in your childhood that hindered your growth and creativity?" That's a quality question.  You can tell a lot about a person by how they respond to that question.  

EDIT: Wow.  I just read through that last paragraph and I feel like a TOTAL creeper. 

Ok. Proceed. 

So then I go on a mission, right?  And when you're a missionary... being socially awkward is cool.  Like, its just what you do.  It's encouraged even!  Like, who rides a bike around in a skirt in 120 degree weather and talks to everybody they see?  Pretty much only missionaries!  Who offers to help strangers in any way they can and who asks to share a message at dinner?  Just missionaries.  Who has a 9:00 curfew?  Who gets out of a passenger's seat to back a vehicle out of a parking stall when there are absolutely no other cars in the parking lot?  Who shares a cell phone?  You get the picture. :)  ((I miss being a missionary)).  A missionary knows where the social boundaries are and just happily rides right past them all the time.  Like pretty much every second of every day.  Its so great. 

So then fast forward a year and a half and I'm back home, right?!  Oh my awkward!  Its so funny because you've just spent a year and a half being SUPER awkward and then you get home and you're expected to just slide right back into society.  The world expects it to be an EVENT and not a PROCESS.  Let me just tell you... the adjustment for me has been quite the process.  Let me also tell you that I'm pretty sure that process is not going to be over any time soon. 

Sooooo, the epiphany I had last night as I was driving with a friend and we were talking about how awkward I am was this: Karma is real, and I am socially awkward.

It is real.  I have been the most socially awkward person for the past three months and it is rough. I know part of it is because of the mission... but I also realized last night that part of it is simply karma.  Not to get all Justin Timberlake on you... but "what goes around comes back around".   I don't like feeling awkward, but I feel SUPER awkward in like every social setting.  Especially around boys.  Oh man.  That is the worst.  Its like I completely forgot how to interact with people.  I can handle petty pleasantries but when it gets past that I totally freak out inside (and sometimes I think that awkward internal freak out bleeds through to the outside...... ok, actually I think it ALWAYS does and that's part of the reason I'm so awkward) because I'm like... "eeeehhh. Well I'm fresh out of conversation ideas.  What do we talk about now?" all while trying to do some belly breathing that I learned in the missionary health guide to stay calm.  Ok, actually I never opened that book.  Oops.  Perhaps I should have!  That would have solved a lot of my problems. 

I'm a crazy. 

So I have this noise I make when I feel awkward.  It goes like this: EeeeeEEeeehhhHhhhh.  It kinda sounds like a less intense version of Kronk's personal theme music in Emperor's New Groove.  I basically find myself making that noise every day.  All day.  It somehow makes me feel better.  I dare you to try it. 

Ok so I probably deserve it, right?  Right.  But I sure am ready to feel normal again.  Whatever normal is nowadays, anyway.

And now a quote from Robert Pattinson himself: 

Yep.  I've never identified so well with him.

Is that awkward that I just quoted Robert Pattinson?


EeeeeeEEEEeeehhhHhhhh. 


The end.